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Mommies

Mommy Arrogance

May 17, 2010

The definition of arrogance is offensive display of superiority or self-importance; overbearing pride. If you read the previous post about Mommy Envy, then you probably think this post is unnecessary–you know, because it’s for her, the OTHER mommy. Feel free to send a link to your nemesis, but don’t click “send” until you’ve read the [...]

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Mommy Envy

November 4, 2009

We all suffer, to some degree, from Mommy Comparison. Mommy comparison is comparing oneself to another mother to the point of  envy or arrogance. Let’s be honest about it. Comparing ourselves to others usually puts us in one of two dangerous camps–envy or arrogance. We feel terrible about ourselves, while wishing for that “thing” we [...]

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The Problem of Mommy Comparison

October 19, 2009

The following is an exaggeration. It is meant only to dramatize the problem of what I’ll call Mommy Comparison. Stay tuned for another post to follow that goes a little deeper, taking us into the heart of why we compare ourselves, the dangers of it, and some steps of resolution.
Admit it! I’ve got something you [...]

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Let Him Be The Daddy

October 3, 2009

Originally published March 25, 2009, this is still one of the posts I hold dearest to my heart. Most of you haven’t seen it because you haven’t been around that long. Welcome to New Mommy Help. Put your feet up and experience the beauty of your child’s relationship with his or her daddy.

I was talking [...]

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How A Mommy Learns To Potty Train

September 8, 2009

Before you read this post, please be sure to read How A Toddler Learns To Potty Train. Then come back here for part two.

When it comes to potty training, I am not the expert. I am the experienced. However, experience alone does not produce an expert. Can anyone relate to that? Before you click away, [...]

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Feel Like A Failure? Encourage Another Mommy

August 24, 2009

I think we can agree that we all feel like failures at some point. I love to encourage other mommies. It’s the reason New Mommy Help exists. I want  to reach into your life and give you a hug, a pat on the back, a gentle challenge, some practical tips for your everyday life, or [...]

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How To Make Books Come Alive With Your Toddler

August 18, 2009

I get a lot of questions about what kind of books to get for a toddler. Or, I hear moms say “She just won’t sit still long enough to read a book.” I certainly know the limits of a toddler, but it is possible to enjoy a book with him. If you want to know [...]

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Before I Was A Mom

August 13, 2009

Before I was a Mom:
I thought tantrums were cute. Well, I still think they’re cute when it’s your child.
I ironed my clothes occasionally. I’m not sure where the iron is right now.
I wasted a lot of time. Now I wish I had more time to do important things.
I had a plan. Plan? What plan?
My house [...]

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How to Go on a Date After Having a New Baby

August 10, 2009

A marriage changes dramatically after having a new baby. It is not all bad either. Actually, having a new baby can grow your marriage in some beautiful ways. The love you share and the experiences you have as parents help to form an amazing bond between you. So, take advantage of the love you have for your baby and share it with each other.

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